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Finding Magic in Mexico

How far would you go to visit a dream destination? It seems surreal now, sitting in our living room with the suitcases unpacked, to think that we’ve spent the past two weeks in Mexico. Just a few nights ago, Bama and I completed a marathon two-day slog that began halfway across the world. My seatmate on the 16.5-hour flight between Mexico City and Istanbul (with a stopover in Cancún) couldn’t believe we were in Istanbul for a 16-hour layover before the 12-hour flight back to Jakarta. “That is such a long journey,” she exclaimed in wide-eyed shock. “¡Qué horror!

I replied that Mexico was worth it. Twenty-eight hours in a confined economy class seat was an inescapable price to pay for this milestone trip: the occasion marked Bama’s first time setting foot on the Western Hemisphere and also our first-ever foray into Latin America. This year, the stars aligned to make things happen. Online research suggested that weather-wise, one of the best times to visit Mexico coincided with an extended public holiday in Indonesia. Taking another six or seven days off would give us a vacation of roughly two and a half weeks, the longest our work commitments would allow for. And Turkish Airlines was offering tickets at a third of the cost of going via Japan.

For me, traveling to Mexico was the realization of a childhood dream. I fondly remember Saturday nights parked in front of the TV with my dad and older brother, watching National Geographic documentaries on the ancient Maya civilization that once thrived across Mesoamerica. I admired these advanced societies that built the magnificent cities we now call Palenque, Tikal, Uxmal, Copán, and Chichén Itzá. During my early teens, I borrowed history books about the Maya from the school library and meticulously copied glyphs by hand. If my memory serves me right, some of the inscriptions I drew were from Palenque, and the idea of walking among its ancient pyramids and royal buildings shrouded in tropical jungle sounded magical.

So, I knew we simply had to make the detour to Chiapas — Mexico’s southernmost state — for several days in Palenque. Before going, we managed to figure out overland transportation from Villahermosa airport and then onward to Mérida, the Yucatán state capital and a place we truly enjoyed despite it being a sweltering 40°C (104°F) at midday. Bama was most looking forward to Uxmal (just over an hour’s drive from Mérida) for its unique architectural style; together with a handful of smaller sites down the road, it makes up what’s known as the Puuc Route.

A replica of a mural found at Teotihuacan’s Temple of Agriculture

Entering the Ex-Convent of San Antonio de Padua in Izamal, Yucatán

Sopes de Cochito Chiapaneco (Chiapas pot-roasted pork on a base of fried masa) in Palenque

Sopes de Cochito Chiapaneco (Chiapas pot-roasted pork on fried masa) in Palenque

Amid the ruins of Palenque — my favorite Maya site in Mexico

Amid the ruins of Palenque — my favorite Maya site in Mexico

On board the Tren Maya from Palenque to Mérida

We bookended the trip with a couple days in Mexico City: first to see the National Museum of Anthropology for a primer on the archaeological sites we were going to visit, then to get a feel for the sprawling and energetic capital of this colorful nation. Bama and I had just enough time for an afternoon at the awe-inspiring ancient city of Teotihuacan, an hour to the northeast by car.

Adding to the excitement was the novelty of savoring regional Mexican dishes and ingredients we’d never get back home in Jakarta. Bama and I sampled three kinds of mole; munched on nopales (prickly pear cactus), first sliced up in a salad and then stuffed with chicken and stringy cheese; and feasted on Yucatecan favorites like queso relleno (meat-stuffed edam cheese) and the pit oven–cooked pork dish cochinita pibil. I took an immense liking to the ubiquitous “refried” pinto beans served at breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Being adventurous eaters, we did not shy away from insect-based proteins like escamoles (ant eggs) or zatz (cicada larvae) or chapulines (Sphenarium grasshoppers).

Longtime followers of our blogs will know that we have a soft spot for food history, and it was pretty special to taste chocolate, chilies, avocado, and corn-based foodstuffs in the part of the world where they originated. What also struck us was the familiar range of tropical fruits commonly found in Indonesia, including soursop, guava, and passion fruit. Alongside other New World ingredients like potatoes, tomatoes, peanuts, and corn, all three were introduced to Asia by Portuguese and Spanish traders in the 16th and 17th centuries. At the same time, Mexico’s indigenous chocolate-making tradition was transferred across the Pacific to the Philippines through the Manila–Acapulco galleon trade, and in return, luscious Philippine mangoes were brought to Mexico. The culinary links between Southeast Asia and Mesoamerica run much deeper than most people realize.

Traveling to Mexico was a rare opportunity for me to brush up on the Spanish I learned 15 years ago in Salamanca, Spain, when this blog was still in its infancy. Lingering doubts about the state of my rusty español had all but evaporated by the third day of our trip. I was surprised at how quickly my vocabulary returned, and how much I could still speak and read and understand. It came in handy for decoding menus and ordering food at street stalls and restaurants, buying tickets and transit cards, navigating the intercity ADO buses, and checking in for our domestic flights with Aeromexico. My decent grasp of conversational Spanish also gave us the chance to foster a brief connection with taxi drivers, shop clerks, and restaurant servers we encountered along the way. Bama and I found an unexpected new friend in Abdiel, the fatherly Cuban driver who ended up taking us on day-long excursions around the state of Yucatán.

After spending 13 days in Mexico, I’m envious that readers in the United States and Canada have such a unique and remarkable country on their doorstep. I now understand why a culture-minded uncle and aunt in Toronto have recently taken longer vacations there to escape the Canadian winter. Mexico City is five hours by air from Toronto — exactly the same flight time between Hong Kong and Jakarta or Bali. If Mexico were that close to us, I’m sure we’d go at least once every two years.

Swimmers taking a dip in the waters of Yokdzonot Cenote, Yucatán

A dessert and ice cream shop in a converted railcar at Mérida’s new La Plancha Park

Distinctive Puuc-style reliefs at the Quadrangle of the Nuns in Uxmal

Our first meal in Mexico, enjoyed at a Oaxacan restaurant in downtown Mexico City

Jacaranda trees in bloom along Mexico City’s Avenida Juárez

31 Comments Post a comment
  1. India Safaris's avatar

    What an incredible journey, James! Your passion for the Maya civilization and the way you brought Palenque and Uxmal to life was truly inspiring. Loved the cultural parallels you drew between Southeast Asia and Mexico — especially through food. And props for reviving your Spanish mid-trip! Thanks for sharing such a vivid and heartfelt adventure.

    April 15, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Thank you in turn for the lovely comment! I’m still processing everything I saw and experienced in Mexico — while adjusting to normal life back at the office. One of these days I’ll have to sit down and write it all out so I don’t risk forgetting any interesting details.

      April 15, 2025
      • India Safaris's avatar

        Totally get that feeling — coming back from a trip like that can be such a whirlwind! I hope you do write it all out someday; I have no doubt it’d make for a fascinating read. It’s those little in-between moments and impressions that are often the most meaningful. Until then, may the spirit of Mexico keep sneaking into your everyday life (preferably in the form of tacos or spontaneous Spanish)! 😄

        April 15, 2025
      • James's avatar

        Thank you! I have some scattered notes in my phone and laptop, but there are plenty of gaps to fill. Real-deal tacos are a little hard to come by in these parts, and almost no one here speaks Spanish. That said, I do know of one restaurant that does proper Mexican food, so if I crave mole I will know where to go! 😀

        April 15, 2025
      • India Safaris's avatar

        Scattered notes are the start of every great story — sounds like you’ve got the foundation already! And hey, even just knowing there’s a mole sanctuary nearby is a win. 😄 Maybe one rainy afternoon you’ll find yourself piecing it all together over a plate of enchiladas and a little background mariachi. Looking forward to whenever you decide to share more — your perspective makes the past feel so alive!

        April 15, 2025
  2. Anna's avatar

    I just saw Bama’s post about Mexico earlier and I was so happy to see that you guys got there! It’s a long way from our time zone but well worth the effort! I look forward from more posts from the both of you, especially the food! I love Mexican food!!!

    April 15, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Absolutely, Anna! This was a dream trip for both of us and we never had doubts about going on that super-long journey to Mexico, even if it meant losing four days in total. The food was an eye-opener for sure. My coworkers couldn’t believe it when I told them the ant eggs were actually delicious!

      April 15, 2025
  3. restlessjo's avatar

    It’s very different from your home, isn’t it? I’ve never been, because it was always associated with resorts like Cancun, which didn’t appeal, but it does seem to offer a lot.

    April 15, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Funnily enough, we encountered striking similarities with Indonesia in some of the landscapes and the way things and people looked — some Mexicans could easily pass for Indonesians and vice versa. There was a real familiarity to eating in semi-outdoor food courts in Mexico: they are identical to what we have here in Southeast Asia.

      We only saw Cancún through the airplane windows on the way back and didn’t feel like we’d missed anything. Mexico is a huge and diverse country; I hope you consider going someday for the incredible history and culture and its natural scenery.

      April 15, 2025
  4. Edwin Tan's avatar

    I just read Bama’s post on Mexico and now yours. It must have been a really fun and interesting trip!

    April 15, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Fun and interesting is right! Theoretically, I think it’s possible we could both publish 5–6 posts from our latest trip, since we took so many photos and covered a fair bit of ground in those two weeks. And what was surprising was that aspects of Mexico reminded us of Southeast Asia in general and Indonesia more specifically.

      April 15, 2025
  5. Monkey's Tale's avatar

    I’m so glad you two were able to explore some of Mexico’s finest places. Uxmal and Palenque are at the top of my list of Maya sites. I’m jealous at the jacaranda trees in bloom in CDMX!! Maggie

    April 15, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Hi Maggie! Bama may have mentioned it already, but he vociferously reread your Mexico posts before the trip for inspiration on where to go and what to see. The jacaranda trees were an unexpected bonus — we realized they were still in bloom just before landing in CDMX from the splotches of vivid purple dotting the urban sprawl!

      April 16, 2025
  6. Rebecca's avatar

    I just came here after reading Bama’s post on Mexico. Those two-day journeys to and from a far-flung destination are tiring, but very rewarding once you make it! Despite living just a three-hour drive from the Mexican border, I admit I didn’t visit Mexico until I was 25 years old. I’ve also not been to Chichen Itza nor the Oaxacan region, but I hope to head there for my next visit to Mexico! Looks like a lovely time for the two of you, delicious sopes included!

    April 15, 2025
    • James's avatar

      I loved those pork- and vegetable-topped sopes we had in Palenque. They felt indulgent yet somewhat healthy at the same time! A contact here in Jakarta was telling us we really needed to set aside a few days for Oaxaca, but we eventually decided it wasn’t a realistic option given our limited days off, so we will have to save it for that next trip. Hope you return to Mexico soon!

      April 16, 2025
  7. lexklein's avatar

    I’m seeing references here to Bama’s post on Mexico, which somehow did not make it to my inbox … otherwise, I would not have been so incredibly surprised to see your post! Wow, guys, you finally made it! I have read many times how high this was on your wish list.

    Given both our proximity and J’s job, we have been to Mexico dozens of times. So I have the opposite envy – I wish I could go to so many places in Asia easily and over and over again. Let’s do a house swap for a year and see what happens! 🙂

    Seems like you covered some solid ground. I’m glad you went to the Anthropology museum which is so good and a great overview, as you note. The Mayan ruins are also obviously a highlight. The food really is excellent in Mexico and like the food aficionados you are, you took good advantage!

    So happy to see this post and to know that this momentous trip has finally happened. Like you, I have flown Turkish for price reasons and dealt with the long flights and layovers. Glad it was worth it for you guys!

    April 16, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Lex, I was actually thinking of mentioning you in this post when I was writing it earlier this week. We now understand what you mean when you say Southeast Asia feels so far away! Bama and I are lucky to be just a short or medium-haul flight from so many great destinations on this side of the world, but anywhere in the Americas is just so hard to reach. The house swap idea sounds amazing, though it would be nearly impossible to pull off given the visa issues for both sides! 🙂

      About the delicious food, we didn’t find it very spicy compared to what we have in Indonesia, so ended up putting salsa verde habanero on quite a few dishes. (It was funny that servers everywhere warned us the salsa was muy picante.) A Mexican-American friend in Bangkok did tell me once though that she felt Thai food was spicier than Mexican cuisine. I guess it must be all the bird’s-eye chilies!

      April 16, 2025
  8. Mallee Stanley's avatar

    Living in Canada, I’ve still never been to Mexico. I guess I just love Asia too much.

    April 17, 2025
    • James's avatar

      That’s quite a surprise! Should you ever go south someday, certain aspects of Mexico might just remind you of Southeast Asia as it did with us.

      April 19, 2025
  9. Bama's avatar

    I think this is one of the fastest posts you’ve ever written and published on this blog, James, which tells how much you enjoyed Mexico. If only this country weren’t so far from Indonesia, we would have planned another trip! I think the next time we go, which I believe will include Oaxaca, we should go back to the Museo Nacional de Antropología to visit the section on Oaxaca, and the ones on the ancient cultures along the Gulf of Mexico as well as the Western and Northern regions of the country. At least now we know that the Mexican dishes we had at Carbón were authentic, so the next time we crave food from this part of the world we know where to go.

    April 19, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Bama, I guess part of it was that I wanted to write while the memories of our time in Mexico were still fresh. The other posts will take longer given the number of photos we took at each place! I completely agree about going back to the Museo Nacional de Antropología for those other galleries before making the trip to Oaxaca. It would have been a little overwhelming to see the entire museum in one day. And I also look forward to dining again at Carbón at some point!

      April 19, 2025
  10. thirdeyemom's avatar

    So cool! I saw this post in my inbox and couldn’t wait to read about your trip with Bama to Mexico! I loved loved Merida and the Yucatan. Some of the best food I’ve ever eaten! And I see you went to the same cenote as I did. I will be excited to catch up and read all your posts. I truly loved this part of the world.

    April 29, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Hi Nicole! What a coincidence that we went to the same cenote — it was a spontaneous decision on the way back from Chichén Itzá and the driver decided that was a good place to stop! The food of the Yucatán truly is something special. I miss the fabulous dishes we enjoyed in Mérida and a little restaurant in a small town down the road from Uxmal!

      May 8, 2025
      • thirdeyemom's avatar

        Yes that is so great! I can’t wait to read more of you and Bama’s posts on the trip. I’ve been so busy with life lately that my time on the blog has been not enough.

        May 14, 2025
  11. NocturnalTwins's avatar

    I can’t believe the flight you guys took. You’re both so passionate about travelling. I have to give you full marks for being able to remember your Spanish (how many languages do you speak?). I’ve only been to a resort town once in Mexico. I should go to check out those ruins before I get too old to travel.

    If things work out, I will be doing a Hong Kong, China and Malaysia trip this year.

    Cheers!

    April 30, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Bama was the one who put forward the idea of going to Mexico; he’s a planner at heart and really got the ball rolling for the trip. I think my own responsibilities kicked in after we arrived and I became the interpreter. To be honest, I may know a couple of languages, but in my opinion English is probably the only one I speak 100% fluently!

      How exciting to know you’ll be coming over to this side of the world — if you need any tips for Hong Kong, feel free to send me a message through the contact form. I’ll be happy to help!

      May 8, 2025
  12. taligoestravelling's avatar

    It’s definitely worth the flight, even if you question it when you’re still flying after how many hours! I look forward to seeing more of your travels there, the food, the history, the vibrancy for the cities… I went to Mexico last year and can’t wait to go back again one day – it’s not quite as far from NZ, but it’s still not close.

    April 30, 2025
    • James's avatar

      Agreed! Given your time living in Madrid, I wonder if you had a similar experience with your Spanish when you were in Mexico last year. Hearing and seeing the differences in vocabulary was very interesting, and I made the conscious decision to drop my ceceo to blend in a bit more. Being in NZ, you must have flown via South America!

      May 8, 2025
      • taligoestravelling's avatar

        The fastest way to Mexico from NZ is via the US. To get there we flew to Houston and then down to Cancún, coming home we flew from CDMX via LA. That worked well because I’d never visited either of those cities in the US either!
        And yes I sure did – accidentally using vosotros made people look at me twice so I quickly switched to ustedes! I really enjoyed seeing how different the language is there, the slang, and even words for food that they don’t use in Spain.

        May 12, 2025
      • James's avatar

        Wow — I hadn’t realized there were direct flights between Auckland and Houston! Going via the US didn’t work for us there are no flights from Jakarta and getting a US visa is pretty troublesome for Bama. Applying for the Mexican one was a breeze by comparison.

        Vosotros vs. ustedes would have slipped me up too! I was so used to going with tú in Spain that using usted all the time in Mexico took some adjustment.

        May 12, 2025

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